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New Client Special

120 Minute Session for Only $275!

Regularly $400

The Safe Daddy Experience

For Discreet Bisexual and Gay Men​

Where Safety Meets Control

Sensual Healing
Massage

 

A private, tailored experience blending skilled touch, emotional presence, and total discretion.

You Deserve To Be Fully Seen, Held and Healed

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Reviewed by Loadit on Aug 15, 2025

Great massage experience with an experienced, friendly, and sensual guy. You can tell he knows what he's doing! Was a pleasure to meet and chat with him. I would definitely recommend

Reviewed by Jpandri on Aug 11, 2025

Usually when I write a review it’s because it was a negative experience but this was just fantastic!! I’ve had quite a few massages in my lifetime but I just can’t stop thinking about it. It’s been the first time in years that I was actually massaged from head to toe and back again. It was just amazing. I felt like I was transcended to another place and when I came back, I wanted to go again!! The touch was both deep and light. I have never felt so relaxed. I seriously wanted him to come back later. To sum it up it was amazing and I will wait a few days before contacting him again. Don’t miss out on this guy!!

A one of a kind experience

What I offer cannot be found anywhere else. Most healing practitioners will never cross into erotic touch, and most erotic practitioners do not have the grounding or discipline to truly heal. I bridge those worlds.

 

Every session is designed as a trauma-informed, luxury ritual where erotic release becomes part of the healing arc. With clear boundaries, guided meditation, tantric touch, and thoughtful aftercare, I create a space where your body can let go of stress, awaken to pleasure, and integrate lasting renewal.

 

This is not a service that can be replicated. It is a rare combination of science, sensuality, and presence — a Safe Daddy experience built for men who are ready for something deeper, safer, and more transformative than a massage or a hookup could ever provide.

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About Me

I provide way more than just another happy ending.  I provide an intimate healing and transformative experience for discreet bisexual and gay men.  What I provide is so much more than a massage.  Most massage therapists who practice in this niche are focused on massaging certain muscles and areas, and then conclude with a happy ending.  What I provide is a more wholistic approach.

I don't just focus on muscles and a massage routine, I focus on energy.  Every stroke across your body is designed to not only remove physical tension but to energetically release and remove trauma.

My background is rich in both life experience and healing work. I carry an intuitive awareness, shaped by my own journey through trauma and resilience, that allows me to read the unspoken language of your body and energy. Every stroke, every pause, is intentional — grounding you, disarming your defenses, and inviting you into presence.​  With a masters degree and bachelors degree focussing on communication and trauma, I've spent years studying trauma and various methods to address and heal the body. 

As a bisexual man, I also deeply understand the importance of discretion.

The world can be cold. Here, you will be warmed.

The world can be harsh. Here, you will be held.

And in this space, you will remember what it’s like to feel safe in your own skin.

My Specialty

120 Minute Healing
Sensual-Somatic
Tantric Massage

(Trauma-Informed)

Regularly $400

New Client Special $275
Less Than $140 An Hour!

A Private Experience In Your Home or Space of Your Choice (Hotel)
I Come To You. 
I Travel Within an Hour of Richmond Virginia at No Additional Cost

The 120 Minute Massage Is Broken Up Into 4 Parts
We can either use the bed or the massage table, whichever you prefer.

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Part 1 – Grounding & Intention (20–30 minutes)

 

 

We’ll begin by creating a calm, welcoming space with diffused essential oils and relaxing music. This first phase is about slowing down, breathing deeply, and letting your body know it is safe.

 

Together we’ll set intentions for your session, exploring what you’d like to release, shift, or invite in. There’s no need to retell your whole story — your body already remembers what it’s been holding. My role is to guide you into a state where those memories and energies can soften and begin to move.

 

Through gentle conversation and a guided meditation, I’ll help you arrive fully in the moment — present, grounded, and open for the deeper journey ahead.

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Part 2 – Somatic Healing & Release (30–40 minutes)

 

 

Once you feel settled and safe, I’ll begin guiding you into deeper embodiment through a combination of full-body massage, mindful touch, and guided meditation.

 

This phase focuses on helping your body let go of what it no longer needs to hold. As I work, I’ll invite you to breathe into areas of tension and imagine old pain, stress, or memories dissolving. With each stroke and breath, we’ll create space for new sensations of safety, pleasure, and renewal to take root.

 

Rather than re-living the past, this work is about re-writing your body’s experience — allowing you to feel what it’s like to inhabit your skin with freedom and ease.

Part 3 – Awakening & Climax (30 minutes)

 

 

As your body relaxes into trust, I’ll begin to awaken your senses with slower, lighter, and more deliberate touch. Using my full presence — breath, body contact, and mindful movement — I’ll guide you toward a deep tantric climax, one that engages not just your body, but your energy and awareness.

 

Every stroke is permission-based and responsive to your comfort. I remain in my underwear and maintain clear boundaries, ensuring that this experience stays rooted in safety, respect, and focus on you. This intimacy is not about rushing to release — it’s about allowing your body to expand into pleasure fully, with freedom and without shame.

 

Here, climax becomes more than an ending. It is a moment of opening — a powerful reminder of what it feels like to be alive, embodied, and connected.

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Part 4 – Integration & Renewal (30 minutes)

 

 

After the peak of release, I’ll guide you into a gentle cool-down designed to anchor the experience in your body and spirit. This final phase is about deep rest, integration, and allowing your system to absorb the work we’ve done together.

 

I’ll hold you (preferably spooning you on the bed) with grounding touch — through breath, light caresses, and soothing body contact — so that you feel safe, seen, and supported. The goal is not stimulation, but presence: a reminder that intimacy can be tender as well as powerful.

 

To complete the journey, I may incorporate hot stones or slow massage strokes along your back, helping your body release any remaining tension. You’ll leave feeling centered, cared for, and renewed — ready to carry the healing forward into your daily life.

My Phylosophy

Our bodies hold our stories. The joys, the stress, the trauma — they live not just in memory, but in muscle, breath, and nervous system. Modern science has confirmed what many healing traditions have known for centuries: the body keeps the score.

 

My work is about creating a space where you can safely explore release and renewal. I combine trauma-informed care, tantric somatic touch, and luxury massage ritual to help you reconnect with your body in a way that feels natural, healing, and deeply alive.

 

This is not about forcing a result. It is about attuning to your own rhythm. Every session begins with grounding and meditation, builds through intentional touch and guided arousal, and closes with integration — so that any climax or release you experience becomes a true completion of the body’s healing cycle, not just a fleeting moment of pleasure.

 

Because of my own lived experience with injury and recovery, I know intimately the difference between a forced climax and an organic one. That sensitivity is at the heart of how I hold space for you. The goal is not only to help you feel good, but to help you feel whole.

 

This is a revolutionary approach to intimacy and healing — designed especially for men who want more than a surface-level encounter. A space where eroticism and restoration meet, where science and sensuality work together, and where you can finally feel what it’s like to be safe in your own skin.

Optional Add-On services

Aromatherapy

Part 5- Light Bondage and Kink Services / $150 30-Minute Add On

For those who wish to explore deeper layers of surrender, I offer an optional extension of Part 3 focused on light bondage and conscious kink play. This add-on is always fully discussed in advance and guided by your comfort and consent.

 

Rather than pushing limits, the intention is to create a safe container where you can explore desire, power, and vulnerability in a way that feels freeing and affirming. Whether through light restraint, sensory play, or guided role elements, the experience is designed to heighten sensation and deepen your trust in letting go.

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Part 6 – Exfoliating Body Scrub Ritual (Optional Add-On, $150 / 30 minutes)

 

Extend your aftercare with a full-body exfoliating scrub — a spa-inspired ritual designed to renew both skin and spirit. Using a blend of warm oils and natural scrubs, I’ll gently polish away tension and leave your skin refreshed, glowing, and deeply relaxed.This add-on transforms your experience into a complete renewal journey, combining sensual healing with the luxury of body care. It’s the perfect way to close your session feeling light, clean, and radiant.

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Part 7 – Alignment & Recovery Add-On. (Optional Add-On $150 | 30 Minutes)

As an optional addition as we complete part 2, I offer a light alignment and recovery session inspired by my own physical healing journey. While I am not a licensed chiropractor or physical therapist, I have spent years learning, practicing, and refining techniques that bring relief and mobility.

 

This session may include:

 

  • Assisted stretching

  • Gentle joint mobility work

  • Postural awareness coaching

  • Hands-on alignment support

  • Relaxation techniques for tension release

 

 

The goal is not medical treatment but to provide supportive, restorative care that helps your body unwind, rebalance, and integrate more deeply after the massage experience.

Part 8 – Piano and Serenade (Optional $150 / 30-Minute Add-on)

 

As you rest in the warmth of the hot stones and gentle aftercare, I can deepen the experience with live piano — a private serenade curated just for you. The music is designed to extend your state of relaxation, weaving sound into the healing journey of touch and breath.

 

For those who want something truly one-of-a-kind, I also offer the option to compose an original piece of music inspired by our session together — a keepsake that no one else could ever have.

Limited Bookings- I accept only a select number of clients to ensure the highest level of personal attention.  If you feel this experience is right for you, inquire below.

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Payments are made discreetly at the end of your session (Cash or Venmo Accepted)

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Disclaimer: My sessions are intended for relaxation, exploration, and personal growth. While I draw from extensive experience and my own healing journey, I am not a licensed massage therapist, chiropractor, physical therapist, or medical provider of any kind. These services are not a substitute for professional medical care. Please consult your licensed healthcare provider for diagnosis, treatment, or ongoing medical needs.

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